Well at the age of 15 it still seems kindda weird and sick to me

i would say when u feel that you're ready for it but the guy should use some kinda protection so there will be less risk of getting pregnant or something

well i think the best age for the first sex is 16...i mean a lot of young teenagers get pregnant with 12 or 13...thats unbelievable..but thats my opinion...

yupp i agree but after 16 atleast i thnik cuz over wise its illegal lol n its stupid wen your young rly..

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yup of course it's bad but they're gonna do it anywayz. ppl do stupid things all the time

The age differs from person to person, but personallly I find everything under 16 kinda sick.

when are they going to stop making me mean more than I say? - Beckett

You know whats funny..everyone is saying this age is sick or that age is sick..but did you know like not many people plan the time to lose their virginity it just happens and I happened to lose it at 15 and I wasn't planning it like that.

I think in the modern age with so much subliminal pressures and such...shit happens and you have to be prepared for anything..so what if you plan..not everything is gonna work out perfect in life.

yhh kinda true.. but u can like stop ur self till after a certain age..

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I don't say it's sick for everyone, but i, personally, am not ready for it ;P

I was 13, and I learnt from my mistake.

i think we only say it's wrong if it's done under 16 only cuz other ppl tell us that it's wrong.

but honestly if there was someone that i love and loves me and he wanted to do it and i did to, i would even if other ppl think i'm stupid for it.

I have no idea what a good age is for the first time ... I would say when you are in a stable relationship and when both partners are ready for it

Homo homini lupus ~ the human is a human, a wolf

Having sex at 15 seems a bit weird to me

I would say 16 and that is the legal age in Ireland when you can have sex.

"If table tennis is easy ... it would be called football"

I agree with blackgeekette, you don't exactly PLAN when you lose your virginity. I mean, it's great to have morals and some kind of guideline, but it's all in the moment and the relationship. I'm 17 years old and still a virgin, and I'm going to keep it that way for a little longer if I can help it lol. I dont think 12 and 13 year olds should be dating at ALL in the first place... So bah. But I guess different places have different standards for that kind of thing...

16 should be ok

SKS

Is there a best age?? I think that's pretty much bullshit. Just when ur ready for it and just with the one u think u should do it with. If u think ur ready when ur 14 then that's alright with me, except that I think it's pretty stupid.

"If God wanted women to understand men, football would never have been created." - Roger Simon

agreee wid dis 2

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And as for the oh when it is legal...okay that's another thing..I think legal and stuff is only actuallt enforced if you get something illegal like a 25 year old with a 13 year old something..but in reality I doubt the police are gonna bust in on like two 15 year olds having sex cause they aren't 16 or 18.

At least 16. Most likely if you're younger, you won't be ready for it, so best i'd say at least 16. to be on the safe side.

not earlier than 16.

Nobody's perfect..i'm nobody!

i don't think there is a right age..
just whenever you feel ready and you feel comfortable with it,
and the other person of course too

I think thats different from person to person, but I dont think I will do it in a few years, still a kid you know
But I think you sould be at least 16, because before that Its like you would do it just cuz someone else whanted it, not you...

I was 15.

*~Well behaved women rarely make history~*

why do most people here think that you have to be 16 to be ready for sex?

I had sex before I was 16 and I don't regret it, so I don't understand why so many people here think you have to be 16...

@miichaelah: why do you think that you can't really want sex if you aren't 16?
Is it like that: "Oh, now I'm sexteen and I suddenly know if I wan't sex or if someone else wants me to have sex"?
I can't understand why someone is more adult (sry, I don't really know how to say it) with 16 than with 15, because some persons are more adult with 15 than with 18...

Im still a virgin and im planning to keep it that way until i get married.

I guess when ur around 16 or 17 and ready

they say that cuz other ppl say it to them or something like that. and it's BS. i don't suddenly fall in love when i become 16. i was already in love. i don't suddenly feel that it's ok to have sex when i become 16, i would hav already but i didn't feel ready at the time. and if i believe that i'm ready to have sex with some1 that i love, i will do it. reality is, it's got nothing to do with age, it's more like maturity in many different kinds of ways.

what means "BS" ?

oh sorry BS = bullshit
though i try not to say it too much

Well let me offer my advice. You should be ready for sex and girls guys want it when they can give it/. Only have sex if you love your guy not just to please him or all that jazz, cause he could just use that to brag and all. And if you get a reputation than well that sucks. But i say not before 16.

I agree dont rush in to keep a guy/impress a guy cos he will prob just leave you, make sure you are 100% ready and are 100% sure of his feelings and intentions.